Thursday, August 11, 2011

Truly Humbled....

When I started blogging it was because I love to write and express myself...plus I thought someone somewhere might actually enjoy reading about all of my adventures.  Never did I think that this blog would connect me with people that are genuinely concerned about my well being and that would honestly and truly make a difference in my life.  From being there for me when I messed up Venti's HAIRCUT 2 days before he got married....or when I mistakenly CUT my dress for the Wedding.  All of your kind and encouraging comments about my Dad mean so much to me!  I read every single one and reading each one has lessened my guilt that I was feeling thinking that I was the one that was responsible for him falling.
I do believe that it was God's plan that I stopped to say hi so that I was there to help him when he fell.  I did not know the dog was going to run so therefore it was not my fault.  It was a horrible thing to watch and I still can't get the image out of my head but I have learned to not have that sinking feeling of guilt when I think about him.

He is still in the hospital.  It has been a week and a day and he hasn't really improved much.  He is having double vision, he get confused about things, he can't speak a whole sentence and he has no appetite and is hardly eating anything.  We are doubting the care he is receiving (or lack of) and I am calling tomorrow to speak to the Social Worker about it.  He was on Morphine every 2 hours for the pain in his head but that didn't touch it.  Now they have him on Dilata which is a narcotic too and as soon as they give it to him, he is knocked out which is somewhat good because then he can rest but I'm not sure if that is good for him or not.  They did another Cat Scan this morning and we didn't hear what the results were yet.  Every day we are hoping and praying that he will be better.  Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers!

On a positive note, my Mom who had broken her leg (or so we thought) went today to have her cast redone because a doctor in the hospital just happened to look at it when he came in to see my Dad and told her that her cast wasn't on right (it was put on by her Podiatrist because he is a friend of hers!).....so she went to an Orthopedic Surgeon today and he took the cast off and said that it was the worse cast he has ever seen and was even going to save it to show as an example of a "bad" cast....they did an x-ray and here it isn't even broken!!  She left cast free and is able to drive which is wonderful because now she can take herself back and forth to the hospital which she is so happy about because she feels like she is an inconvenience (even though she isn't!)....my Dad actually smiled when she told him that they took the cast off!!

Thank you again for being such wonderful friends.  Hugging you all!!!


My Dad and Mom at Venti's Wedding


31 comments:

  1. Sending good thoughts and hugs your way.

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  2. Jave: This is the first time I heard about your dad falling. I'm so sorry, but he looks like a very strong man, and I'm sure he'll be fine soon, but will say some extra prayers tonight, and when we go to church Sunday I'll light a special candle for him. What a handsome couple they make and they look so happy! I'll keep your mom in my prayers for a quick recovery also. Have a good weekend. Hugs, Dolly

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  3. What a handsome couple they are Java!
    So happy to hear about your mom getting the cast off. And will continue to pray for continue healing for your dad and that mom will be fine.

    Lord I ask that you would be with Java and her family Lord continute to touch and ehal her dad. Give them favor reguarding the socail worker Lord. We thank you that he would recieve only the best care in Jesus name. That he would be back on his feet in no time at all. We thank you for wisdom and direction in his care Lord. We thank you for those who are caring for him Lord that they would have your wisdom and hands of love Lord. Thank you for continuing to meet each need this family may have need of and tha they would not lack in Jesus name. We thank you Lord that you continue to comofrt and send those that would up lift and encourage Lord. We thank you for the Victory in Jesus name Amen

    Hugs and many prayers
    Blessings

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  4. When it rains it pours huh? I am so sorry for your Dad's accident but happy (sorta) to hear that your mom's cast was a mistake. That is quite a story my friend!
    Take care of yourself for a change K?

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  5. praying so hard for your father and sending you strength for this most difficult time.

    I would contact the hospital administrators (president of the hospital, everyone) We had to do that numerous times for my father-in-law when he broke his hip years ago. Unlike your Dad he had dementia and his care was subpar. Go as high as you can go in the hospital, make phone calls, write letters. Do it nicely but firmly, you WILL get results.

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  6. Oh, Java, I know it is scary seeing your Dad in so much pain! My daughter had a brain bleed, too, 7 years ago. She had surgery and recovered completely. Praying that your dad will have good doctors and nurses, and care. blessings, k

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  7. Thank you for updating us. I wondered how he is doing.

    Recovery from a head injury can be slow. It sounds like your dad has made some improvements since last week. Thanks be to God! And as for your mom, thank God once again!

    Also ask to speak to the nurse manager or head nurse. And there's a charge nurse on duty every shift. Concerns about his care should be brought to their attention.

    Take care, and God bless each of you!

    NCSue

    Take care of yourself, and know we'll be back to see you again.

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  8. So sorry to hear about your dad. I do hope his recovery is swift and he receives the care he deserves. Glad your mom is doing well. Keeping all in my thoughts and prayers.

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  9. Love your heart...so glad that you realize that you were in the right place at the right time to be able to help your Dad. Great news about your Mom's leg, too. God is sooo good. Please know how much we all love you!!!

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  10. Thanks for the update. Still praying for ALL of you!
    Don't you just love the blogging community where folks from all over are lifting you up???? <3

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  11. Wow, happy news about your Mothers leg. I've been thinking about you so much sweetie. I was happy to read this post. Yes, you are loved. I have made some of the most amazing friendships through bloging. I am continuing to send prayers. Hoping your Father will be better soon xo.P.S. I never know which blog to use when I leave a note to you here so I have been using Katherines Corner instead of Gifts By Katherine. But either way, I am doubly blessed by your friendship♥

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  12. I have been watching my parents struggle with their health, so I understand. It is such a helpless feeling! I pray your Dad will heal swiftly and that you will have peace and strength. (((hugs)))

    Beth

    http://mydestinysharinghope.com/

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  13. Sending positive thoughts for you and your Dad. Glad to hear your mother is up and running. You are doing the right thing by staying on top your father's care. It is important to advocate for the patient. It is tough but important to let all the care givers know that his family is around and aware of his care.

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  14. Prayers of healing for your father, and comfort for you and your family, as well as wisdom to ensure he gets the necessary and appropriate care.

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  15. I am grateful for an update on your dad but sad that he isn't getting better yet.
    However, how wonderful that your mom found out her leg wasn't broken after all and is cast free.

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  16. Gosh, I was sure hoping he was better. I pray he improves quickly. Great news about your Mom. Sad though that she was misdiagnosed so badly. Scary.

    Hugs,
    Kat

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  17. Java
    never ever feel you are a burden to any of us!!! we have all had problems. We are (I think its safe to say) always here if you ever need.

    Your parents are awesome!!! and glad she got her cast off, oh how I remember those days sigh!!!

    Lord, we lift Java's dad & family up to you that you continue to heal him as only your love can do! Lord please be with any workers that come into contact with him/them. Give them all the strength during this trial to stand strong with you.

    In Jesus name amen

    Blessings to you and your family
    Rainbow (Gina)

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  18. Sending you hugs. I have not been on blooger for awhile so I am sorry for not responding sooner. Truly sadden on the news of your dad. I hope he makes a speedy recovery.
    Glad to hear your mom doesn't have a broken leg nd can cmoe an go to see your Dad. But what an idiot of a doc to put a cast on a woman who doesnt even have a broken leg. The crap she must have endure.
    I think you were meant to be there because what if you weren't there who knows what would have happened to your Dad. The dog could have taken off regardless who was there at the time. It was a blessing you were there to do what needed to be done quickly.

    God bless to all!!

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  19. This is the first time of me reading about your Dad's accident & I'm sadden by the news. I sometimes on occasions like to stop by your blog to read about your intriguing adventures. Your blog posts make for a good read during breakfast. I will keep your Dad & family in my prayers during this trying time.

    Sonya M. Jones
    Tee-iabo Designs

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  20. Java, My mother-in-law had surgery for a brain bleed and is fine now and I hope and pray you can be encouraged and that your dad will be fine soon. And don't feel bad...it wasn't your fault. As women, we all feel too guilty about everything. Debbie http://thriftygirlvintage.com

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  21. I'm so sorry about your dad's fall and pray he has a full recovery. Hang in there and try not to blame yourself. I hope your mom recovers as well. It is hard to have our parents age.

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  22. Java
    I stopped by for the blog hop and then read your heartbreaking events with your dad. This is not your fault! Thank God you were there for your mom and dad because it sounds like it was only a matter of time before the dog would take off. Sending prayers from Colorado!
    laura

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  23. Sending positive vibes your way. I took care of my father for 8 months and would feel guilty over just about every little thing. Some things are out of your control and out of your hands. You obviously love and adore your Dad. It's the best thing you can give him right now, all your love and support. Will be thinking about you and your family.

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  24. Stopping by to leave ♥ and prayers . Thinking of you xo

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  25. Eeeeekkk, I've been totally swamped and haven't stopped by. Hoping things at the parents improve, sending good karma your way.

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  26. I read your post when you first published it. I was at work and couldn't leave a comment, but I do want to let you know that you are in my thoughts always, and I do hope your dad is getting a bit better. Much love.

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  27. It is really hard to see our parents as frail in any way. I am sorry that your dad fell, but I am glad that you were there to help him.

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  28. I was hoping there would be a happy update about your Dad. I sure hope he's healing quickly.

    Hugs,
    Kat

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  29. A new week ahead and you are not far from my thoughts. Sending hugs to you and yours xo

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  30. Java I hope as I write this that your dad is doing better. I tried to leave you a note when it first happened but after the 3rd try I thought it may end up posting multiple times, looks like it didn't even post once :( I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and to let you know that there was nothing you could have done that would have prevented the accident, its a blessing you were there to help your dad and get medical attention for him. I am soooo glad to hear about your mom not needing a cast at all, what great news for all of you, even your dad smiled at that! :) Please keep us updated, we all care about you and are here to chat whenever you need us. xoxox

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