tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post6377549131238677851..comments2023-09-23T11:05:23.508-04:00Comments on Never Growing Old: I got it!!Javahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07932885655554324081noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-38004015050736941402011-01-13T19:44:29.303-05:002011-01-13T19:44:29.303-05:00It sounds like you feel the new job is a better on...It sounds like you feel the new job is a better one in the area of finances. But your present job and flexibility sounds like it suits your interests and home life. If you aren't feeling despair over money maybe you should stay where you are.<br /><br />I would feel stress trying to make the "right" choice too. In the end, follow your heart and you can't go wrong.Mama Pikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17006217299243636274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-26163546058917937212011-01-12T22:02:21.082-05:002011-01-12T22:02:21.082-05:00I think you should do what you would love most and...I think you should do what you would love most and could see yourself doing in the future long term.<br />Good luck and get well soon!<br />~Naila MoonMichelle aka Naila Moonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14085797149191658262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-37248726507512868552011-01-12T20:41:53.520-05:002011-01-12T20:41:53.520-05:00We always work on a 'when in doubt, don't&...We always work on a 'when in doubt, don't' type philosophy. What works is prayer. Take it up in prayer and wait for an answer. If you feel doubt about one--then don't.Empty Nesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14060983954463697344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-39104411933981333062011-01-12T18:57:26.100-05:002011-01-12T18:57:26.100-05:00Have to agree with flexibility. I started at my cu...Have to agree with flexibility. I started at my current employment 10 years ago, I had to cut my hours for health reasons. My boss liked me and thought I had value elsewhere, so now I LIVE where I work. If I need to have a day off I can take it without worrying. I am the only person on my shift, so I make my own schedule of when to do what, at age 67 3/4 ( 68 in May) this is so important. I wouldn't take another job now for more money because I like the flexibility so much. Good luck in whatever you decide and hope you feel better soon.<br />KathieKathiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05334174033025219569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-33226700339874454412011-01-12T16:08:43.640-05:002011-01-12T16:08:43.640-05:00Congrats! And to have a choice is wonderful! I t...Congrats! And to have a choice is wonderful! I think though there is some truth to the phrase "the grass isn't always greener on the other side". The initial rush of a new offer, job, challenges, roles, etc is an adrenalin rush and one which you want to start immediately. BUt, when that rush simmers is when you will be able to make the choice that is right for you. Good Luck on your decision. Keep us posted.Sassyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05043761727415338044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-78342593905261605652011-01-12T14:06:17.341-05:002011-01-12T14:06:17.341-05:00I. Have. No. Idea. I hate making major decisions....I. Have. No. Idea. I hate making major decisions. do like Ben Franklin says.....make a list of Pro's and Con's for each<br />then decide on your priorities and the things that are most important to you.<br /><br />I do like the less stress, felxibility, of your current job...those parking costs are HORRID. aren't they going to cover that???<br /><br />hard decisions. don't worry...be happy (tee,hee)wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13619293936418976914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-5147932998526812322011-01-12T12:58:13.011-05:002011-01-12T12:58:13.011-05:00I had to delete the last one because I (among othe...I had to delete the last one because I (among other things) am a LOUSY speller.<br /><br /><br />It is an attitude you have to adopt. <br /><br />EVERY DECISION IS THE BEST DECISION YOU HAVE EVER MADE because you will NEVER know what the alternative choice might have brought you. Even if you come to think you may have made a poor one there is still that unknown as to what (possibly awful) thing may have transpired if you had gone the other way. Also, this ATTITUDE is much better for your physical and mental health.<br /><br />I seldom write serious blogs. But, this may be a good subject for me to post someday.<br /><br />FEEL BETTER SOON.....ktAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01967340091034274347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-61930076836711364382011-01-12T12:55:27.276-05:002011-01-12T12:55:27.276-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01967340091034274347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-57374363809460458982011-01-12T08:44:14.917-05:002011-01-12T08:44:14.917-05:00You have to go with your gut....and what you ultim...You have to go with your gut....and what you ultimately want. If you feel like the new position will offer advancement, don't get hung up on the fact that the starting salary is the same. If there is room for advancement, the salary in 6 months a year may be totally different. If you are more interested in flexibility, stay where you are. Think about what you like most and least about the current position and see how the new one relates. Also, a big factor to consider is if you were so happy at the current position, would you have really started looking elsewhere in the first place. Finally, when you make a decision, go with it and don't look back. If you do, you will drive yourself crazy. I was in the same situation about 11 years ago, when I had to make the same decision. I ended up going with the new company, and although my start wasn't much different from where I was, I ended up in a totally different position, and I am forever thankful I took the leap... Good luck!Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00938287202761607041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-68222091413957543152011-01-12T07:38:29.394-05:002011-01-12T07:38:29.394-05:00Go with your gut feeling. Which one do you think y...Go with your gut feeling. Which one do you think you'll be happiest at? Do you want to put up with the inconveniences of the new job? It is a tough decision since both are great pluses. Just a thought here...which one will you burn out faster at?<br />Good luck. I know you'll make the right decision.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-35125556183861828422011-01-12T06:21:17.625-05:002011-01-12T06:21:17.625-05:00Congrats on the new job offer! I know it's a ...Congrats on the new job offer! I know it's a very hard decision. I went through this myself a few years ago. I wanted a job with less stress and I was sure the new job would give me that. Well, I found out that the new job came along with its own stress (all jobs have some form of it. I had alot of flexibility with both jobs, but more so with my old job. Plus there's alot to be said with staying where you know everyone and feeling comfortable.<br /><br />Anyway, I've since returned to my old job where I'm now making more money, but I lost all my seniority when I took the new job. Had I stayed put, I would have so much more as far as vacation time goes. But, I had to try and get it out of my system though. I often wish I had just stayed.<br /><br />However, that's me, and doesn't necessarily apply to your situation. Everyone's different. <br /><br />I do hope it works out for you.Yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13261873308731564886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-25290440558835805162011-01-11T23:09:16.282-05:002011-01-11T23:09:16.282-05:00Fore me it would be clear-cut. I'll take flexi...Fore me it would be clear-cut. I'll take flexibility over a chance for advancement any day. Good luck whichever you decide.Vicki @ Grams Made Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14830960886130900689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-89472238439606875042011-01-11T22:20:25.479-05:002011-01-11T22:20:25.479-05:00Decisions, Decisions!
My first thought was to take...Decisions, Decisions!<br />My first thought was to take the government job for the benefits especially retirement. I wish I had taken a job at the county hospital for the insurance and retirement benefits.<br />On the order hand, no amount of money, or benefits, can make up for a job <br />That offers flexibility. Luckily, you have a good week and a half ton ponder, think and pray. You will come up with the Right answer for you!<br />ShawnShawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11410609940311482746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-48750821075570585712011-01-11T21:47:49.128-05:002011-01-11T21:47:49.128-05:00Congrats on the job offer. I understand where you ...Congrats on the job offer. I understand where you are coming from as that same thing happen to me many years ago. I went with the job that seemed to have more career opportunity, however, benefits, retirement and insurance costs should also be considered along with parking cost. When you still have your children to consider, that flexibility means a lot!(Diane) Bibliophile By the Seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10519875632878992728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-57454713308409710762011-01-11T21:24:14.060-05:002011-01-11T21:24:14.060-05:00Congratulations!! How awesome you got the job. I d...Congratulations!! How awesome you got the job. I don't envy you having to make a decision.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-5020672419481878122011-01-11T21:23:04.464-05:002011-01-11T21:23:04.464-05:00Well, you have covered making the list. That offe...Well, you have covered making the list. That offered you the insight of balance.<br /><br />How are you looking to grow?<br /><br />Why are you looking to grow? Does looking to grow fit what your talents and skills and callings are?<br /><br />Are you in a place where you are looking to make a name for yourself?<br />Are you in a place where you need to grow so that you can send kids to college, buy a new home, make a financial investment of some kind?<br /><br />Those are all questions I ask myself when faced with this type of situation.<br /><br />What is the most important accomplishment you want to make while on your job?Sharon Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00695395104518983907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-86978879506921308472011-01-11T20:30:34.385-05:002011-01-11T20:30:34.385-05:00Do you really want advancement? Unless I've m...Do you really want advancement? Unless I've misread, you left your previous job because of the extra responsibility/time/stress, and now you've got the same in your current job and that's why you're thinking of leaving it?? So if that's the main reason for taking the new job ...<br /><br />I had a job where I was on the computer all day (not blogging!!), and there's no way I wanted to log on when I got home!! You CAN have too much of a good thing!<br /><br />Congratulations, and good luck making your decision!Red Nomad OZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03020668094026661054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-54822878639514525762011-01-11T20:21:32.253-05:002011-01-11T20:21:32.253-05:00Congrats on the job offer! I'm really not sure...Congrats on the job offer! I'm really not sure what I would do. How much do you like the freedom of your present job? If you really do then the new job would not be for you. Good luck with your decision!gaylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00894920637532415315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-67242545815724195922011-01-11T17:25:02.819-05:002011-01-11T17:25:02.819-05:00Congrats on getting the offer. Wish I could help....Congrats on getting the offer. Wish I could help. My advice - "follow your heart". What does it (or your gut) tell you?<br /><br />Hugs,<br />KatJustabeachkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06730467440181411875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-19416293853131013302011-01-11T17:13:33.179-05:002011-01-11T17:13:33.179-05:00Congratulations!! (Now imagine a giant pink font ...Congratulations!! (Now imagine a giant pink font in bold with fancy lettering & balloons & stars all over the words.)<br /><br />Keep making the best of your life & dreams. That's what matters the most.AFare24Gethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09866585464422858527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-86438539184498406682011-01-11T15:39:27.578-05:002011-01-11T15:39:27.578-05:00I was a Mall Store manager. I was never into the ...I was a Mall Store manager. I was never into the career part of it. Flexibility is a great thing. Not having to come into to work sick because you have the keys, is a great thing. You know, in your heart, what is right for you. Just do that.Just Stuff From a Boomerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13440903695801765867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-82541315513388013402011-01-11T15:37:55.778-05:002011-01-11T15:37:55.778-05:00Congrats on the job offer. I'm glad you have t...Congrats on the job offer. I'm glad you have time to decide which is best for you. Maybe as a test run, pretend at your current job you have NO flexibility by using none, and see if you would really be happy giving that big asset up. As a mother, flexibility is my deciding factor. <br />Good luck on whatever you decide..https://www.blogger.com/profile/04696349325648202084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-2402303934528876612011-01-11T15:31:57.007-05:002011-01-11T15:31:57.007-05:00Just trying to catch up with all my fav blogs and ...Just trying to catch up with all my fav blogs and so I've been reading over your past several posts - busy girl!<br /><br />New job? I hate making big decisions, but I find that if I follow my gut, I rarely go wrong.<br />Good luck!!mCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16252684152629825538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-33914235404830070352011-01-11T14:44:50.836-05:002011-01-11T14:44:50.836-05:00Congrats!
When all else is the same, choose what&...Congrats!<br /><br />When all else is the same, choose what's best for the kids.Laniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15438241075767655180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-256911450791990581.post-31514266919551093832011-01-11T14:32:42.123-05:002011-01-11T14:32:42.123-05:00Congrats! You have a little time to think about it...Congrats! You have a little time to think about it but whatever you do will be the right choice. <br /><br />(I know, lame middle of the road answer)Mrs. Tunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04547957015150000116noreply@blogger.com